When every song is the message you have been searching for

This week there was no further delaying making some changes. I had been busy long enough and I had run out of time to be distracted by other things, they were going to change whether I did something or not.

In trying to find the right decision my search wasn't for answers or advice or even inspiration this time. All I needed was wisdom. Surely there is someone out there, but  don't know anyone, who has been in my position and could give me insight from the other side- which is really what I wanted.

Every song I listened to seemed to have a message directly relating to me. Which is bizarre, cool but also tricky.

On Tuesday night I fulfilled a 14 year old life dream and saw this song performed live by its original artist.
It's an oldy but a goody. Love it or hate it there are some good thoughts...

You have so many relationships in this life
Only one or two will last
You go through all this pain and strife
Then you turn your back and they're gone so fast
And they're gone so fast
So hold on to the ones who really care
In the end they'll be the only ones there
When you get old and start losing your hair
Can you tell me who will still care?
Can you tell me who will still care?
Chorus:
Mmm bop, ba duba dop
Ba du bop, ba duba dop
Ba du bop, ba duba dop
Ba du
Mmm bop, ba duba dop
Ba du bop, Ba du dop
Ba du bop, Ba du dop
Ba du
Plant a seed, plant a flower, plant a rose
You can plant any one of those
Keep planting to find out which one grows
It's a secret no one knows
It's a secret no one knows
no one knows
(Repeat Chorus)
In an mmm bop they're gone.
In an mmm bop they're not there.
In an mmm bop they're gone.
In an mmm bop they're not there.
Until you lose your hair. But you don't care.
(Repeat Chorus)
Can you tell me? You say you can but you don't know.
Can you tell me which flower's going to grow?
Can you tell me if it's going to be a daisy or a rose?
Can you tell me which flower's going to grow?
Can you tell me? You say you can but you don't know.